We all have survived tragedies during our life, some better than others, but for those of us still here on this rock, we did survive.
One thing I know about surviving a tragedy is that the healing comes in stages. You know, denial, anger, acceptance. Sometimes we may get stuck in one of those stages for a long time. We all heal differently. And, while we are stuck in one of those stages, we may act out of sorts. We may become severely depressed, or extremely angry. It happens, but for most of us, we come out of it eventually. Its while were are in that place that we must be careful not to hurt ourselves, or others with our thoughts or deeds.
For those of us that may be affected by ones over reacting, it is up to us to offer words of encouragement, and peace. Oh, we may not agree with the person, their words, or behavior, but we all would agree that their behavior is in some way a call for peace.
So, as you hear and read of things that have transpired over the past few months here in town, stop, and think, and don't judge. And if the opportunity ever comes to say a kind word, whether or not you agree with the person, do so.
You see, the time we stay in one of those places is entirely dependent on how we deal, and how others deal with us.
We all have the power to help heal.
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