Some Comments Are A Conundrum

Thinking Out Loud In Sturbridge gets all sorts of comments. Some immediately after the an article is posted, some months later.  The comment at the far bottom is one I received a couple of weeks ago on a posting I wrote about the Chowder Festival at the Public House last winter, it reads, "Great blog, more wine reviews please".

Well, first of all, thank you for the compliment about this blog.  I like it, too.  As far as wine reviews go, well, That's not what I do.  I am not wine savvy.  I 'd like to know more, and I am learning.  I did stop by the new Wine Buyers Outlet on Main Street here in town a couple of weeks ago, and left knowing more than I did going in.

I do try wines when recommended by friends, and when I like them, I will recommend them to others.  Since you offered a compliment about this blog, I will reciprocate and recommend a wine we tried a few weeks ago.

Recently, our brother-in-law, Paul, a man with exquisite taste, recommended a white wine that he enjoyed a great deal.  The wine is named, "Conundrum".  The reason for that puzzling name is that the wine is a proprietary blend of wines that one would never expect to work together, and the exact ingredients are not shared by the vineyard.  A real conundrum.   The wine is excellent.   If you would like to learn more about this excellent wine, check them out at conundrumwine.com.

So, as far as wine reviews go, well, that's it.  Now, it's your turn to share one with me, and next time I'll share with you all I know about Boones Farm Strawberry Hill wine.

Betcha can't wait.


Comment left on blog:
Great blog. more of wine reviews please

By Top australian Wines on Chowder Fest A Hit, Next Up: Wine, Beer & Food Fes... on 7/13/11

Your Mother Was Right: Think, Then Speak.

Sometimes, despite our very best of intentions, we spread ourselves so thin that our effectiveness at everything we do begins to fail.  We can also become so emotionally involved about a particular event, or thing, that our fanatical passion can cause us to say, and do things we would  otherwise never have said, or done.  Despite years of saying things well, and having done things right, all it takes is a poorly worded moment to cause those around us to become upset, and confused by our words.

Quick words from the lips fired by emotion, and not tempered by thought.  This scenario has changed lives throughout history as we have seen recently.  We should all adopt a 5 second delay when we speak.  There are so many times I have spoken, and then gasped hard as if to suck my words back into my throat.

It doesn't work.

The same goes for writing an email during an emotional moment.  One word of advice from one that knows all too well: don't.  If you must write in order to release the demons, then do so without an address in the "To:" box, and when you are done, save it as a draft.  Do not send it.

After twenty-four hours or so, look at the draft.  Reread it.  If you still feel the same way you did when you first wrote it delete it, and the same goes if you feel better than you did the day before.  After you delete it, pick up your phone, and call the person to speak to them live.  You may just come up with a solution when there is an active, live exchange.

I guess the bottom line is to think out what you intend to say, or write,  in advance, pause before you speak, or save your thoughts as a draft, and respond appropriately to those that are present.  If there are those that disagree with you, and tell you to go soak your head, and it happens to be on a day like this when it is 100℉ plus,  then thank them for caring, and move on.

You tried, and that's all you can do.

Now, Let's See What Happens

I was driving west on 20 yesterday afternoon when I saw this sign for just a fraction of a moment.

I almost pulled a "U-ee" in front of  the dance studio.

The sign announces that a development called "Quinebaug Landing" is to be built on the land at the intersection of Route 20, and Holland Road.  The current site of abandoned old mill buildings, overgrowth, and no inspiration.  I would like to think the owner of the land read one of my previous postings suggesting just this kind of development, but I understand that others can have awesome ideas as well.  Either way, it is a great way to rescue that corner, and I wish the developer the very best of luck.

This morning I wrote to the owner to acknowledge his wonderful idea for developing the area.  I also told him the sign needs some tweaking since it can hardly be seen to drivers heading east bound, and it comes up way too fast on the west bound side.  Ideally it should be directly at the intersection with two signs in order for those at the light coming from the south and north can view it as well.  When an opportunity like this comes to a financially stressed area, we have to do everything we can to help it succeed.  The jobs that would come from construction, shops, restaurants, and offices are so needed.

It will be nice to drive up onto that intersection and see anything other than the wasteland it has become, and to see a facility that will actually take advantage of the rivers beauty.

Now, all we have to do is wait.  Wait for interested  businesses to tell the developer that they are on board.  Seeing how well other business developments have filled in around town, even in a time of "economic downturn", I have a great deal of confidence.

If I had the money, I would be one of the first in line, and put a cafe, and art gallery right on the river.  For those of you with more of an ability to invest, take that dream as inspiration, and go for it.  I don't think a better investment could be made in today's economic climate.

One more thing, it is all about location, and this site has it all.

Old Sturbridge Village “Redcoats & Rebels” Aug. 6-7

New England’s largest military reenactment

Two-day event for the price of one

The Tenth Regiment of Foot prepares for battle during
Redcoats & Rebels at Old Sturbridge Village.
 Photo courtesy Old Sturbridge Village.

(Sturbridge, Mass.) July 18, 2011 – Old Sturbridge Village’s “Redcoats & Rebels” is New England’s largest Revolutionary War reenactment, and this year’s event will be the largest to date. Nearly 1,000 soldier reenactors from eight states who will participate in the August 6 - 7 event, which features mock battles, drilling, musket and cannon demonstrations, fife and drum music, and the chance to see military life up close.  Mr. Butler is the Commander of the Yarmouth Minutemen.

Since Old Sturbridge Village offers a free return visit within 10 days, visitors can attend both days of the event for the price of one. Admission also includes extended hours on Saturday, Aug. 6, when the Village will remain open until 8:00 p.m. for the Twilight Encampment, where visitors can mingle with the soldiers around their campfires. For details, visit www.osv.org or call 800-SEE-1830.

More than 40 units from eight states will participate in the reenactment, including six companies attending for the first time. More soldiers will participate in Redcoats & Rebels this year than in any of the previous eight years of the event. Reenactors portray British and Colonial soldiers, as well as their allies from Ireland, Scotland, Wales, Germany, and France. This wide range of companies is an accurate representation of the nations and soldiers who fought in the war for American independence.

Following a parade of British troops through the town, the Village fields will become the site of a mock battle each afternoon. Troops will reenact a battle scenario where Americans and their allies attack a British-occupied town. Visitors can see surgeons “treat the wounded” and see the American troops get their smallpox inoculations. Throughout the day they can tour behind-the-scenes in both the British and American camps to learn what life was really like for these 18th-century soldiers -- how they ate, slept, and even how they did laundry.

Other events designed to provide a look into the lives of soldiers include reconnoitering with a Ranger from Peter’s Corps, and a prisoner exchange between the Americans and British (Saturday only). Special events on Sunday include a Sunday Service for the troops, the arrival of American soldier’s pay and uniforms, and a court martial trial with the HMS Somerset. Young visitors will enjoy learning the real words to “Yankee Doodle,” making tri-cornered hats, and drilling with the Second Massachusetts Regiment.

In addition, visitors can learn about the fashions and customs of the time during programs like “Mrs. Peabody’s Levee” – a look at 18th-century foundation garments presented by the group “Ladies of Refined Taste,” which will also present “Runaway Runway” – a look at civilian clothes in the late 1700s. Military fashions through the years will be presented by the Tenth Massachusetts Light Infantry.  On Saturday, music, dancing, and ball games will be featured. A complete schedule of activities can be found at www.osv.org.

Reenactors choose to portray either British or Colonial units for a variety of reasons. Andrew Fredericks, of Rochester, Mass., commander of Tew’s Company, a Colonial unit based in Rhode Island, says the reenactors in his unit want the public to know that “a group of common men from the tiny colony (of Rhode Island) had the perseverance, fortitude, and willpower to become one of Washington’s premiere fighting units.”

Another new unit, Butler’s Rangers, led by David Sorek, of Monroe, Conn., portrays a group of Loyalist soldiers fighting for England – a unit largely forgotten by history. According to Sorek, the original members of Butler’s Rangers were average Americans working hard to build a good life for their families. When faced with the prospect of war, they chose the status quo and loyalty to the Crown, and were persecuted for these beliefs and stripped of their belongings. Joining Butler’s Rangers gave them an opportunity to take back what was theirs.

Old Sturbridge Village celebrates life in early New England from 1790 – 1840. Located just off the Massachusetts Turnpike and Routes I-84 and 20 in Sturbridge, Mass., OSV is open year-round, but hours vary seasonally. Currently, the Village is open seven days a week from 9:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Admission is: $20 for adults; $18 for seniors; $7 for children ages 3-17; children under 3 are admitted free. Each admission includes free parking and a free second-day visit within 10 days. Woo Card subscribers get 25% of adult daytime admission; college Woo cardholders receive 50% off adult daytime admission. For details, visit www.osv.org or call 800-SEE-1830.

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Redcoats & Rebels at Old Sturbridge Village – Participating Units by State

Massachusetts

Billerica Colonial Minute Men	Tewksbury
Crane’s Battery	Sutton
Danvers Alarm List Company	Danvers
Eighth Regiment (Kings)	Lynne
Eighty Fifth Regiment de Saintonge	Sutton
First Foot Guards	Quincy
Fourth Regiment of Foot	Framingham
HMS Somerset	Halifax
Lexington Training Band	Merrimac
Regiment Bourbonnais	Carver
Royal Irish Artillery	Baldwinville
Second Massachusetts Regiment	Westford
Second New Hampshire Regiment (Cherry’s Company)	Methuen
Second Rhode Island Regiment	Swansea
Sixteenth Queens Light Dragoons	Tewksbury
Sixty Fourth Regiment of Foot	Sterling
Stow Minutemen	Stow
Tenth Massachusetts Regiment	Randolph
Tenth Regiment of Foot	Lexington
Tew’s Company	Rochester
Twenty Fifth Continental	Agawam
Twenty Third Regiment: Royal Welch Fusiliers	Needham
Yarmouth Minute Men	Yarmouth

Connecticut

Butler’s Rangers	Monroe
Fifth Connecticut Regiment
Great Quinnehtukqut Company of Artificers and Traders	Meriden
Lebanon Towne Militia	Dayville
Ninth Regiment of Foot	Uncasville
Peter’s Corps	Stafford Springs
Prichard’s Company: King Rangers 2nd Co.	Higganum
Sixth Connecticut Regiment	Hampden

Maine

Eames Rangers

North Berwick

New Hampshire

First New Hampshire Regiment	Hudson
Kings Rangers	Salem
Regiment von Riedesel	Contoocook
Twenty Ninth Regiment of Foot	Concord

New York

Alden’s Sixth Massachusetts Regiment	Warrensburg
Second Regiment, Albany County Militia	Middleburgh
Third Ulster County Militia	Gardiner
Twenty Fourth Regiment of Foot	Balston Spa

Pennsylvania

Eleventh Pennsylvania Regiment	Audubon
Twenty Fourth Connecticut Regiment	Noxen

Rhode Island

Fortieth Regiment of Foot	Providence
Smith Castle Museum	Peace Dale
United Train of Artillery	North Providence

Vermont

Warner’s Regiment	Montpelier
Whitcomb’s Rangers	Shrewsbury

Just A Small Thought

Every home should have a paper / document shredder.  If your child is setting out on their own, give them a shredder as a house/apartment warming gift.  Getting married?  Then register at Staples, and choose a heavy duty shredder for the two of you.

Sounds a bit silly really, but it is one of the soundest pieces of unasked for advice you will receive.  If a person with bad intent has a small snippet of information about you, they can, and do everyday, use that snippet to bilk you, and others, out of hundreds, and thousands of dollars.  You can prevent it from happening by spending between $70.00 and up for shredder that will shred well, and shred for awhile.  Once you have the shredder home put it where it can be accessed easily, and begin the habit of shredding every piece of paper that comes into your home that does not immediately go into a file cabinet to be saved, or put aside for when you pay the bills.  Everything with your name on it, and/or your address on it.  Everything you do not wish to keep, shred.

Obviously, don't shred your bills, as much as you would like to, or insurance policies, and other important papers you will need in the future, but everything else...into the shredder once it has served its purpose.

Consider this preventive medicine.  A stray breeze could pluck a bank statement of yours from the trash, and place it right into the hands of a person who knows just how to access your funds with that small snippet of information.  Don't give them the chance.

Tomorrows Saturday, a good day to cruise the aisles at Staples.  You will never regret it.

Oh, and I don't get a kickback from Staples, but it would be nice.